St. Mary's Catholic Parish
211 East Shanklin Street
Carrollton, Missouri 64633
Rev. J. Kenneth Criqui, Pastor
Schedule of Sunday Masses at St. Mary’s
Saturday Evening 5:30 p.m.
Sunday Morning 8:00 a.m.
Confessions: Saturday 5:00 - 5:20 p.m.
Sunday 7:45 - 7:50 a.m.
Weekday Mass Schedule for St. Mary’s
Wednesday, January 16, 6:30pm +Arthur Schlueter by Arthur & Mary Kipping
Wednesday, January 16, 7:30pm Parish Council
Thursday, January 17, 6:30pm Living & Deceased members of St Mary’s by St Mary’s Altar Society
Thursday, January 17, 7:00pm RCIA
Saturday, January 19, 5:30pm Members of St Mary’s Parish
Sunday, January 20, 8:00am +Knights of Columbus Members
Mass at Sacred Heart in Norborne is 10:00 a.m. on Sunday
Confessions at 9:45am
Week Day Mass Schedule
Tuesday, January 15, 8:30am +Fr Paul Carson
Friday, January 18, 8:30am +Joan Davis by Tom & Judy Murphy
Sunday, January 20, 10:00am Parishioners
Schedule for January 20, 2018
Lector: Susie Franklin
Offertory: Ron & Pam Fuenfahusen
Minister: Tom & Judy Murphy
Money Counters: Michael Mullins & Ben Weisz
A good website to learn about Catholic marriage – http://foryourmarriage.org
Please check this site for information for homebound ministries.http://onlineministries.creighton.edu/CollaborativeMinistry/online.html
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Youth Group meetings will be the THIRD Sunday of each month this year from 4:00-5:15 for grades 5-12 with the younger and older kids split sessions. Upcoming dates are: 1/21, 2/18, and 3/18.
Due to the generous support of parishioners like you, we were able to help 700 children have a very special Christmas this year through our Christmas Shining Star program. Your support and thoughtfulness put a smile on many faces. If you would like to help support our programs and help your neighbors in need, please contact Nancy Butters, Development Manager at 816-659-8266 or email@example.com
Mass Intentions: We encourage you to remember your deceased loved ones by making an offering. You may also make an offering for the living, especially for the sick, those celebrating birthdays or anniversaries or for any particular intention. Contact the office 542-1259 for information.
Knights of Columbus Fish Fry will be Friday, January 18th starting at 5:00pm. Bakers of the Parish are asked to help with bringing desserts.
Second Collection: Next week, we will take up the Catholic Home Missions appeal. Right now, over 40% of dioceses in the United States are considered mission territory because they are unable to fund essential pastoral work in their communities. Your support of this appeal eases the struggle of these dioceses. Please prayerfully consider how you can support this appeal. Find more information at www.usccb.org/home-missions.
Knights of Columbus Council 1893 will meet Monday night January 21st at 7:00pm in Tally Hall.
ST MARY’S PARISH
St Mary’s Parish Council will meet Wednesday, January 16th at 7:30pm.
Donut Sunday January 20th hosted by Pat Becker & Mary Noblitt.
SACRED HEART PARISH
Poinsettia: Clint and Christy Todd in remembrance of Roberta Parkhurst, Bill Fuenfhausen, Lenora Sanders
Please Help: Sunday January 13th after mass we will need help taking the nativity down.
PLEASE REMEMBER IN YOUR PRAYERS
St Mary's Parish
Weston Robert Paul England, Joann Olvera, Bob Lock, Paul & Barbara Pfaff, Miles Fuemmeler great-grandparents Dale & Karen Johnson of Glasgow), Evelyn Kipping McCorkle, Bertie Duvall, Danny O’Neill, Anthony Tarquino (Teddy Clark’s grandson), Jackie Martin, Joel Rivera, Mike & Mary Jenkins, Don Harper, Rosemary Kirkland & daughter, Denis Kovac, Jay Heil.
Sacred Heart Parish
Carol Albrecht Norton, Jim Wille, Helga Mueller (Renate Albrecht's mom), Rochelle Boatman Derickson, Roger Harper, Mary Scharff, Mike Franken, George Francis Berry, Jill McClure and Bob Ed Newham.
Military Prayer List:
St Mary's Parish
Gabriel Conner and Steve Aderhold grandsons of Bertie Duvall.
Sacred Heart Parish
Lt. Patrick King. 101 Airborne Screaming Eagles son of Tom and Marie King, Hardin MO.
Being a teenager and getting a tattoo seem to go hand in hand. I wasn't surprised when a friend of my daughter showed me a Japanese symbol on her hip.
"Please don't tell my parents," she begged.
"I won't," I promised. "Just curious, what does that stand for?"
She replied, "Honesty."
What Should a Catholic
Know about Cremation?
The Catholic Church permits cremation. For a number of reasons, the church prefers the burial of the body, but it does permit the celebration of a funeral with cremated remains.
Among the reasons in favor of burial of the body are these:
· Seeing the body confronts people with the mystery of life and death.
· The body naturally recalls stories of faith, family and friend-ship, the words a person spoke, the deeds a person performed.
· Although we have virtual electronic friendships, people best encounter another person through the body.
· The body experienced the sacraments – being washed in baptism and anointed in confirmation, and by eating and drinking the body and blood of Christ in communion.
· The body is destined for the glory of the resurrection.
· The final care of the body demonstrates dignity for the whole person.
· Burial imitates the burial of Jesus body, and thus constitutes another layer of discipleship.
If a Catholic chooses cremation, the church prefers that the final disposition of the remains be in a public place, such as a cemetery.
Many survivors make other arrangements: they retain the ashes at home, divide them among family members, or scatter them to the elements. The Catholic Church disapproves of these practices.
According to the Vatican’s Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, the conservation of ashes in one’s home is not permitted, nor may they be scattered in the air, on land or at sea. Ashes may not be preserved in mementoes such as jewelry (Ad resurgendum cum Christo).
The careful placement of ashes honors the remains of the deceased in the same way that burial of the body does. Furthermore, it gives a permanent place where future generations may visit to remember, and where the person’s name can be honorably etched.
The Catholic Church also prefers that the final disposition of the ashes take place as soon as possible after cremation has happened. This will protect the remains from accidental or deliberate abuse.
Some crematoriums have a place where the family may gather during the process. If a family desires to be together, they may spend the time offering suitable prayers of thanksgiving and hope, such as Psalms 23, 25, 42, 51, 93, 114 and 115:1-12, 116, 118, 119, 121, 122, 123, 126, 130, 132 or 134.
There are three possibilities for the sequence of events. Here they are in order of preference:
1. The body of the deceased is present for the vigil service and the funeral Mass, and cremation happens before the committal at the cemetery. In this case, the body may be placed first in a ceremonial coffin that will be interred, and the removed from it for the cremation.
2. The cremation and committal take place before the funeral Mass. In this case, the cremated remains are interred in a cemetery or mausoleum, and then the mourners gather for the Eucharist.
3. The cremation takes place before any of the funeral rites begin, and the cremated remains are present for the vigil, the Mass, and the committal.
Whenever the ashes are presented in public for the funeral services, they should be treated with the same dignity and respect offered a human body. The container should be dignified, and the pallbearers should carry it with honor. Because of the compact nature of the ashes. Someone may be tempted to carry it more casually. It is all that remains of a human being. It deserves respect.
© 2016 by Order of Saint Benedict, Collegeville, Minnesota. Permission to copy this excerpt from Light in the Darkness: Preparing Better Catholic Funerals by Paul Turner (Liturgical Press, 2017) is granted for use in parish ministries only. All rights reserved.
MASS SCHEDULES: the Mass schedules for surrounding communities are: Brunswick: St. Bonafice, 203 E. Harrison St, Sunday 10:00 am,
Richmond: Immaculate Conception Parish, 602 S. Camden, Saturday, 6:00 p.m., Lexington: Immaculate Conception Parish, 107 N. 18th St., Saturday 4:00 pm and Sunday 10:00 am,
Chillicothe: St. Columban Parish, 1111 Trenton St., Saturday
5:00 p.m., Sunday 8:00 & 10:00 a.m.
Where to worship: Sunday isn't Sunday without Mass.
If you will be away from home on a Sunday and do not know
where to worship, call 1-800-627-7846 for nearby
Church and schedule of Masses. Or check the Internet site at
For more information call the parish office at 542-1259
Office Hours Monday - Friday - 8:00am - 1:00 pm
Shawna Bartlett, Administrative Assistant
Renee Grant, Office Assistant